Let’s face it. We’ve all been hurt. You can’t be an old or young person, alive today who hasn’t experienced some kind of emotional pain.
If anyone knows pain, it’s me (we won’t get into the awkward past lol). So, I get it. But here is what we must understand…
Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting it means you are choosing to love yourself over the need to hold on to the past! YOU ARE DOING IT FOR YOU.
It can be so hard to do but you MUST realize, that holding onto this past, will make you relive the pain and heartache over and over in your mind! Now I got to ask you, is that healthy?! Do you want that negativity in your life?! HECK NO MY FRIENDS!
So, how can we possibly do this? Well, buckle up I will give you some tips. Here’s the deal though, you must promise to share this with ONE friend who is in this situation, to help make their life better!
1. Commit to letting it go – things don’t just ‘disappear’, we need to commit that we are ready to move on and drop it (like Eminem’s new rap album)
2. Stop being the victim and playing the blame game – no one likes to be around the person pointing fingers (it’s just annoying)
3. Live in the present – our lives are too short to live in the past. Focus on today, and the days moving forward (be the Rock-star you were meant to be)
4. Forgive – the only way this all works is if we are willing to forgive whatever was done. Regardless of the circumstance be the bigger person in life.
Once again, these steps are so DANG simple, we just need to take a step back to realize it. Little steps that make a significant difference to our lives!
So grab the word “the past”. Go into the kitchen. Throw it in the garbage disposal and say GOODBYE to it forever.
Look at that, you just made the first step to being a better person.
Be forgiving. Be awesome. Be always better. Be the best DANG person know to man!
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