We are all humans, which means none of us are perfect. Sadly, we can lose sight of this at times in our life especially when things are not going perfectly.
You know the you who you are beneath your defense, hurts, and fears?
LISTEN TO AND LOVE THIS YOU. NOW.
I can say from my own personal experience, I know exactly how it feels to be vulnerable and feel like I am not at my best. When nothing seems to be going right when everything seems to be going the complete opposite way that we planned. When our flaws outweigh our good, and no matter what we do we cannot win. What seems to happen in these times, is we forget something rather critical and important.
WHO WE ARE DEEP DOWN.
We forget the awesome side of ourselves. We forget how great we were at our best. The time that everyone looked at us as a hero, and a great person. The time that we were unstoppable and so excited for life. When our peers looked to us for advice or our parents smiled at us. We forget the accomplishments we have achieved, and how hard it was to achieve them. The list could go on…
The fact of the matter is we need to stop. Take a step back and focus on what we are beneath the flaws, hurts, and fears.
It’s so easy to feel bad about ourselves, and think the world is after us and that nothing will get better. It’s even easier to blame others for our weaknesses and surroundings. To blame everyone but the true culprit. This is the world that we live in though, point your finger and take the blame off our shoulders.
Want to know what is the hardest? To dig deep and find the great YOU under all those hurts and fears when things are going tough. To say to yourself “yes, this stinks, but I know there I is a better me”. Understanding that this ‘bad time’ will come to an end once we can take action and tell ourselves the better version of ME can conquer all.
There is only one way to understand our strengths and who we truly are, and that is by identifying them. Identifying our strengths in our personality and our traits that make us the greatest most unique human in the world. One way to find these is by taking personality tests, one I highly recommend is this: https://www.temperamentquiz.com/ .
Take action, my friends. Find your inner self and realize how truly blessed you are. Don’t stay in the world of fears, doubts, sadness. Beneath those is where you find all the beauty.
Find the real and strong you.
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