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Confidence Is KEY

Good afternoon world! Happy Wednesday to you all!

The New Year is coming up in just a few days, and we all have our lists prepared for the New Year and all our resolutions I am sure, RIGHT?! Please attention your eyes to the screen, take a break from work and read away.

CONFIDENCE IS KEY. 

How many times have you heard this? Many times I am sure and the reason being, IT IS KEY. Confidence can make all the difference, turning you from a zero to a hero. The thing is that all of us are capable of reaching the same peak on a level of confidence, we just have to set our feet deep in that foundation, and move forward with no fears and the mindset of no fear in our blood.

Just a few days ago I was asked by a young lady, how I cooked a certain meal. It is a Persian dish which I have mastered by doing it numerous times. The first time I made the meal I did it for a group of guests. I had not the slightest clue what I was doing and I was nervous. I will tell you though, I had so much confidence in myself and said I was going to prepare it to the best of my ability. Thank the good Lord they had no idea what it was supposed to taste like, so I could fail and they would still think it was amazing. The reason why I bring this up is because she asked me how to make it, and she said “oh we are going to mess it up so bad” to which I responded “CONFIDENCE IS KEY, it will be amazing”. That is what inspired this blog.

Now having confidence does so many things, and one thing it does that is really important, is it doesn’t “show our weakness”. We are allowed to be nervous, in fact nervous is good but never do we want anyone to think we can’t do it from the outside. Remember, and I say this all the time, people are always observing us and trying to figure us out if they sense a lack of confidence they can read it like a book. Why do you think women like when a man is confident?! I am not one to preach about relationships trust me, but whenever you ask a woman they say they like a confident man. (by the way confidence can be perceived in many ways, so if she thinks you are don’t question it….RUN WITH IT!) 

Confidence will also make us better at making personal decisions which we may struggle with, in a ways it will help us pull the trigger and move forward and in a way “navigate change”. Sometimes it will be the deciding factor that could make all the difference in a decision that could change our lives forever. Confidence  also helps us avoid procrastination  and gives us the ability to push forward and accomplish difficult tasks.  It enables us to accept our weaknesses and lack of skills while hearing and benefiting from constructive feedback and criticism from others around us.  It gives  us the power to learn from past mistakes, rather than repeating them.  It allows us to develop the persistence and fortitude needed to bounce back from defeat and move forward. Confidence will help us get out of our personal bubble, and allow us to open our eyes to a whole new perspective. If we can just wake up with this in our minds it can make a huge difference.

Now you may be thinking “Jordan why do you make it sound so easy!!” It is not in fact it’s is something I have to work on everyday and have to push myself to be better at. Fortunately, I work in a job field where I am tested by it everyday, and am forced to go out of my bubble or I will fail. My area of opportunity is in my personal life and in my Faith that I can work on perfecting things. We all have something we can work on and if we have dug into our foundation like we spoke about in the past, we will spot it and that confidence will make us strong enough to tackle it! Confidence is something that is built over time, step by step, and day by day.

So let us all work together to be confident, and let’s tell ourselves we can do it everyday. For the young lady who asked about the  meal, it will be the best meal you have ever cooked, tell yourself that as you pour the oil on the frying pan (I know her personally she is from a very nice family).  So go go go ladies and gents, and be confident, you never know your future lover could be in the same room, will you have the confidence to say HI or will she walk by and say BYE!

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